Acceptance

With the current media buzz around The Clergy Project, and two of its graduates, Teresa MacBain and Jerry DeWitt, I wonder how this looks to religious people. It must be rather confusing on their end- rejecting these wonderful people, while the growing secular community Read more

On Closets & Doorknobs

It's been three weeks since my last blog post. I've a lot to say, and while plenty of it is stuffed into the following blog post, there is a lot more material coming your way... It's only been six months since penning the blog post Read more

Abundant Bliss

The persistent stereotype pushed by Christians about atheists is that we are all unhappy, unpleasant, miserable people.  This claim is used to derail conversations and defame and disarm atheists and atheism as a whole.  What's most disheartening is that the often genuinely kind and Read more

We're All Activists

Since the web exploded  early last week over strong vs. weak atheist actions, I've been taking note of the arguments.  What both sides are missing is this: you're all activists. If you speak out against religion in a public forum, you're an activist. If you write Read more

Lost in Transliteration

When I, an atheist and ex-Christian, quote Bible scripture verbatim, I'm consistently berated with mantras similar to "You are picking and choosing verses out of the Bible to make the outcome your own," or "you don't know the Word."  The following is an excerpt Read more

Unworthy

Multitudes of theists live accepting the mythology that their parents indoctrinated them with.  They believe, without evidence, that their god exists, loves them, has a plan for their lives, and intervenes in it.  I consider myself an atheist, until proven otherwise. If concrete, indisputable evidence Read more

Seven Year Twitch

Unless I can edit this clearly, the following will be both a dialogue with myself and a letter to those of you outside of the walls of my skull.  This revelation has been waiting for seven years. There was a point in my life that Read more

Acceptance

With the current media buzz around The Clergy Project, and two of its graduates, Teresa MacBain and Jerry DeWitt, I wonder how this looks to religious people. It must be rather confusing on their end- rejecting these wonderful people, while the growing secular community Read more

On Closets & Doorknobs

It's been three weeks since my last blog post. I've a lot to say, and while plenty of it is stuffed into the following blog post, there is a lot more material coming your way... It's only been six months since penning the blog post Read more

Secular Women on Twitter

Author Emily Dietle

Outside of blogging, I’m an avid reader, and enjoy gaming & web design.
I’m also an organizer for the Houston Atheists | @emilyhasbooks


Though it’s Saturday, I was saving this special round of #FFs for today – in honour of all the great women attending and watching the Center For Inquiry‘s Women in Secularism Conference from afar. (#WISCFI). If the following women aren’t on your twitter feed, put them there now:

@MelodyHensley @BridgetGaudette @healthyaddict @SunsaraTaylor @SurlyAmy @jennifurret @Shannon10Marie @lyzmaytweet @HeatherHenderso @seelix @abiodork @saramayhew @nataliereed84 @tkingdoll @Bethpresswood @jbey @Teresamacbain @dELYSEious @LJonYT @CaraColeen @saskiavogel @AmandaMarcotte @algaylor @ShelleySegal @juliagalef @ZOMGitsCriss @ZJemptv @antiheroine @Hayleystevens @JessicaAhlquist @LeahLibresco @ologies @SarahSentilles @Mowgli3 @GodlessAndHappy @aynsavoy @Ziztur @Theoretica @rebeccawatson @DrenAss @Monicks @HappiestAtheist @GretaChristina @janetheimlich @NerdyChristie @szvan

I’m sure that I’ve left off twice as many as are listed, but I hope this is a great start for you to find more secular women on twitter to follow. Emily-



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Moving Towards Post-Atheism

Author Bridget Gaudette

In all forms of activism, my focus is on women’s roles in the secular movement, equality rights, Black atheism & church/state separation. | @BridgetGaudette

I was inspired by a recent article by George Dvorsky, the Chair of the Institute for Ethics and Emerging Technologies. The article was titled, “Why Humanists Need to Make the Shift to Post-Atheism”. First, let’s examine what he could mean by “post-atheism”. I posit two possibilities: 1. describes humanity when all religious belief has disappeared. In this case, we’d all be post-atheists because atheism would be too irrelevant to have any value in our identity; 2. suggests that it is a more evolved and thus more desirable state than atheism. That is, it reflects a more clear-headed and less heated stance that some atheists will eventually reach as they mature beyond atheism. I believe #2 is the perspective that the author is drawing from.

The central theme of the article was to encourage us to move away from bashing religion while building up the humanist movement. The part of the article that got me thinking was in the first paragraph. Dvorsky said, “I’m getting annoyed by all the anti-religious propaganda that litters my Facebook newsfeed […]. What are you hoping to achieve by posting such facile and inflammatory material?”

I am guilty of posting the occasional anti-religious picture meme or quote myself, but I do not see the point in the extremes. I don’t want to see a Jesus or Mohammed engaged in sexual acts with each other. I don’t believe it serves the greater good. The same is true with publicity stunts that some in the secular movement feel are necessary. I am coordinating a protest with some fellow freethinkers and the concept was simple: we get some signs and a group of people and we let the townsfolk know that we oppose religious encroachment on public property. I was criticized for not introducing more drama. When I asked what I should done, the criticizer stated that she would have brought a bunch of fake rocks and did a faux-stoning. In the fashion of WWJD, I thought about a person who found success when fighting for equal rights: MLK Jr. What would he have done? Dress up in whiteface and drag around a chained up Black man for dramatic effect to demonstrate the societal shackles that Black Americans were still encumbered by? No.. I don’t think so. This would have gotten him more press, which is the point of such stunts, yes, but does it help legitimize the movement? Do we get taken more seriously? I think we have to look at best practices. What actions have brought about the most change? Stunts or lawsuits? Dramatics or persistence? Costumes or reason?

All this being said, I, like Voltaire, might not agree with what you say or how you say it, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. We all need to vent and this is good for our mental health. Some folks do this by displaying anti-religious pictures or by lashing out at theists. That’s fine as long as the goal of bettering humanity is always in the forefront. Add some substance.

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Dismantling Dissonance

Author Emily Dietle

Outside of blogging, I’m an avid reader, and enjoy gaming & web design.
I’m also an organizer for the Houston Atheists | @emilyhasbooks


In an article in Toronto’s The Star titled ‘Zealous atheists resemble religious fanatics,’ rabbi Dow Marmur yields bias and piety to produce a piece full of sweeping generalizations and trite “observations” about atheism. With blatant disregard for definitions, Marmur claims that atheism is “on the way to becoming a religion” and that “contemporary atheists are often even more fanatical than religious fundamentalists. Their zeal seems to know no bounds.” Marmur isn’t the only one making such claims, you’ll find commentary like this all over the web 1 2.

Religion, as Marmur is obviously ignorant of, is defined as, “The belief in and worship of a superhuman controlling power, especially a personal God or gods.” Noting this, how  then is atheism a becoming a religion? What god do we worship? We reject all childish notions of deities as they are, without a reasonable doubt, imaginary.  What Marmur mistakes for religion are actually natural elements of our humanity that religion has absorbed and taken credit for- community, family, comfort, support networks. Atheism is not “on the way to becoming a religion.” It is on the way to becoming a vast network of individuals that are free from superstition and dogma.

Another argument Marmur presents is that religion is “more conducive to self-examination and a determination to do better next time” than atheism. Again, we know this is not the case, due to understanding the nature of religion and religious thinking. Religion is control. Religion is following rules.

You may feel that Marmur’s statements about fanaticism and self-examination are so asinine that they need not be addressed, but it’s accusations like these that seem to persist amongst religious circles and affect our movement negatively. Sentiments that atheists are fanatics and that “our zeal knows know bounds” must not be simply dismissed, they must be systematically reduced. It is vital to recognize and understand how those in the grip of religious and supernatural circles think. Evidence does not easily sway them, but emotion does- so use it. Appeal to their emotions. Rile their emotions. However you go about it, ensure that you’re using the right toolbox to dismantle their assumptions and lies about us.

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“Silly Circularism”

Author Emily Dietle

Outside of blogging, I’m an avid reader, and enjoy gaming & web design.
I’m also an organizer for the Houston Atheists | @emilyhasbooks


In a short exchange with TheBlaze blogger, Billy Hallowell, I find Christianity’s soft spot …and poke at it:

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NOM. NOM. NOM.

Author Emily Dietle

Outside of blogging, I’m an avid reader, and enjoy gaming & web design.
I’m also an organizer for the Houston Atheists | @emilyhasbooks


Two weeks ago in an interview with Reap Paden, he asked if I get angry. Calmly, I stated that while I’m angry about a lot of issues, in conversation I find ways to make for healthy disagreements, despite frustrations. Well, if a bigot* from North Carolina engaged me in conversation right now, I’m not sure that would hold true.

The amount of lies, hate, and religious fervor spewing from ‘Amendment One‘ supporters there is vile. This referendum doesn’t even seem necessary, since gay marriage has been banned in NC since 1996, but the “religious right” felt the need to strong-arm everyone into submission anyways.

I think it sends a message to the rest of the country that marriage is between one man and one woman. The whole point is simply that you don’t rewrite the nature of God’s design based on the demands of a group of adults. -Tami Fitzgerald, Vote FOR Marriage NC

Now, I’m sure you’ve heard Republicans droning on with their mantra about “unintended consequences,” well- where are their concerns with this referendum? What of people who chose to remain unmarried, children of unmarried/gay families, health decisions, domestic violence and property rights issues? There are a lot of “unintended consequences” with this filthy referendum- and a few intended ones, too- like making life difficult for a minority that they have been “instructed by god” to hate and discriminate against.

Hey, but despite a few “minor problems” it must be the right way- I mean, even Billy Graham chimed in his support! (by running full page ads across NC newspapers) Also, since “majority rules,” that must mean that the National Organization for Marriage’s $428,000 in support of Amendment One speaks for us all. On that note, I really wish Louis Marinelli had quit NOM earlier- but I’m glad he’s reformed now.

At 93, I never thought we would have to debate the definition of marriage. The Bible is clear – God’s definition of marriage is between a man and a woman. -Billy Graham

Note the following, North Carolinians: The State’s definition of marriage does not affect the definition of marriage within your church, as the two realms are separate. It is not okay to treat people differently just because your “holy book” tells you to, and its not okay to make laws based solely on your religious preferences. When you figure that out, let’s talk. Also, your landslide 60%+ “win” doesn’t mean that “majority rules,” it means that a bunch of bigots were manipulated by big donors to head to the polls.

There’s an effort by radicals at every level to change who we are, to change what America is and to change for our children into a future that I think will be much worse. -Newt Gingrich

Keeping religion out of political policy is vital, and it protects us all- including religious groups…and when religious people begin to understand the consequences of penetrating government with religion, we’ll all be better off.

*Bigot- I’m not arguing about this anymore. I’m not being bigoted by calling out and hammering away at actual bigots. What’s a bigot? Read this: “Bigotry is the state of mind of a “bigot”, a person obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices, especially one who exhibits intolerance or animosity toward members of a group.”

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Science. Skepticism. Women!

Author Emily Dietle

Outside of blogging, I’m an avid reader, and enjoy gaming & web design.
I’m also an organizer for the Houston Atheists | @emilyhasbooks



James Randi’s (JREF) annual conference, The Amazing Meeting! (TAM), is in June! Once again, Skepchick blogger (and more) ‘Surly Amy‘ is selling special edition necklaces to raise funds for ‘Surly Women Grants‘. By purchasing a necklace, you will help get (several) women TAM tickets! Read the article and make a difference by making a purchase/donation today!

BONUS: For every ‘SurlyGrant’ necklace sold, @Data_Jack will donate $10!

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Acceptance

Author Emily Dietle

Outside of blogging, I’m an avid reader, and enjoy gaming & web design.
I’m also an organizer for the Houston Atheists | @emilyhasbooks


With the current media buzz around The Clergy Project, and two of its graduates, Teresa MacBain and Jerry DeWitt, I wonder how this looks to religious people. It must be rather confusing on their end- rejecting these wonderful people, while the growing secular community welcomes them with open arms.  Perhaps they’re used to that experience, what with all their rejections of gay people over the years. I imagine it’s still disturbing though, as they truly believe that people like Terri and Jerry have lost their way- and that we’re “encouraging them to stray.”

It’s honorable for religious leaders that no longer believe in what they’re preaching to walk away from the ‘ministry’- to be honest with the people that they care about. It’s that level of honesty, clarity, and bravery that their ex-’flock’ should respect them for.

Instead of the hateful responses that believers are giving to ex-pastors, they would appear far less hypocritical if they would simply accept these individual’s right to think for themselves. Maybe, as a recent study shows, religious people are truly less capable of compassion- because they act out of obligation to doctrine, not because it feels right. 1 2

Even if you truly feel we atheists are “wasting our lives” or that we’ll “suffer eternally,” or simply not exist after life- just love us now, and support us as we choose to be honest with who we are. If I could share one thing with these congregants, and all families and friends of newly announced non-theists, it would be to remind them that while we may be rejecting their view that a god exists, we are not rejecting them.

If you are, or know someone that is, a non-believing religious leader, please visit The Clergy Project, and if you have recently left a religion, or are struggling with unanswerable doubts- there is support available for you with Recovering From Religion.

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